Rituals for Self-Pleasure
Self-pleasure as an act of Self-care
Exploring pleasure as a daily practice ignites the seemingly mundane to living and centering our deepest desires. The practice of driving to work can be a pleasurable experience when we put on tunes that bring us happiness, eating meals that not only taste good but nourish our bodies is an act of self-pleasure, showering and feeling the warmth of the water blesses our crowns, trickle down the back and through the crack of our bottoms can be a pleasurable experience. The ritual of self-pleasure can expand the spectrum from mundane to erotic, and I would even suggest that allowing pleasure to be accessible in the mundane makes it easier to be accessed in the erotic.
The power of No, the pleasure of Yes
When we exercise our power to say “No, this doesn’t feel good/right,” “No, this doesn’t work for me,” or “No” as a complete sentence, it creates room for our “yes!” to come from a heart-led space, deep desire, excitement! Practicing healthy boundaries and consent in our everyday lives allows us to show up fully for our pleasure in the erotic spaces.
Radical Honesty
It takes radical honesty to stand by our boundaries, exercise our “No,” and find pleasure in the “Yes.” That honesty begins with you being honest with yourself. When we create compassionate awareness of our needs, we can start to make conscious decisions around those needs being met. Saying no to what ignores or diminishes those needs and yes to what honors those needs.
The Body as an Altar for Pleasure
What would you want people to place on your altar if you were a deity? What items would you like to receive that engaged the senses and brought you joy? When practicing self-pleasure, think of the things that get you in the mood! Is it dark chocolate’s bitter, smooth taste paired with ripe berries? Is it the smell of rose, musk, and myrrh, the buttery feeling of warmth on your chest, or the prickly chill of cold on your inner thigh? What part of your body turns you on just looking at it? Where on your body yearns for more attention? Offer the things that bring you joy to yourself as an act of deep gratitude and love. Through self-exploration, you can map out your erogenous zones to ignite your body with pleasure and/or share with a partner so they know how also to please you.
Spiritual Tools for Pleasure
Pleasure is a spiritual practice! Tao tantric arts is a practice of cultivating sexual energy, love, and spirit through our bodies and into our lives. Here are a few tantric practices to awaken your pleasure practices
Yoni Breathing
Yoni breathing increases blood and qi circulation, warms the sexual organ, and activates sexual energy while toning the pelvic floor and diaphragm (Minke de Vos). I incorporate this breathwork practice into my monthly Yoni Yoga Classes.
Breast Massage
Breast massage helps to awaken the fiery love energy of hearts, creates sensitivity in the nipples, and tones our pelvic floor. When the warms of our hearts heat the water energy of our womb space, an alchemy of transformation begins. I enjoy breast massage daily using a specialty blend of Goddes Body Oil.
Yoni Massage
The Cervix Wand™ by WAANDS™ is the premier glass pleasure wand designed for internal pelvic massage, also known as self-yoni massage or vaginal de-armoring. It is best used to heal pelvic tension, pain, and numbness and awaken pleasure.
Using The Cervix Wand™ promotes increased awareness, sensation, & connection to the pelvic region. The round bulbous end of the wand is designed for cervical stimulation, whereas the narrow ribbed end of the wand is designed for stimulating the G-spot and vaginal walls. The Cervix Wand™ can also be used for anal massage, including prostate stimulation.
Pleasure Mapping
Pleasure mapping is exploring your body to discover an erogenous zone. These are zones on the body, other than the genitals, that are particularly sensitive to stimulation, leading to sexual pleasure. Here is a guided meditation to support you with that!
Upcoming Classes
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Yoni Yoga |
Moon and Womb: Wild Femme Circle |
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| Join us every 4th Sunday for Yoni Poppin Yoga, a sensual movement yoga class that honors the sacred body through tantric-inspired movement, breathwork, and meditation.
This Class is offered both virtually and in person (Denver). In-person participants must bring their yoga mats. RSVP Required https://booksteam.com/yonisteamdenver $15. |
Moon and Womb is a virtual container held monthly on the Full moon. Participants can participate from home and be guided through prayer, trance medicine, and drumming. This Offering is part of the Wild Woman Project.
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“The Erotic is our Birthright”
— Adrienne Marie Brown,
Yoni Eggs and Pleasure Wands
Currently available at yonisteamdenver.com/store
BENEFITS OF USE:
- Increasing internal sensitivity & pleasure
- Reversing urinary incontinence
- Increasing libido & sexual energy
- Increasing vaginal circulation & lubrication
- Becoming more orgasmic & experiencing stronger orgasms
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A non-invasive treatment that employs steam from a hot herbal tea mixture that is directed into the vaginal area. The benefits of yoni steaming include painful menstrual cramping, postpartum, post-trauma or miscarriage, irregular periods, and overall rejuvenation and cleansing of your sacred space.
*Individual yoni steams are services that only include a yoni steam. Limpias, tarot-led platica sessions, and breathwork are available as upgrades.
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